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It’s time to end the silence around death. Start the conversation.
For many, death can be a scary topic, and you might think, why talk about something so sad? But talking about dying or death won’t bring it any closer. However, it will help to plan for life and help you and those around you, make the most of the time that you do have.
We sat down with sisters Rosie and Jean; new parents Greg and Hannah; and co-workers Tim and Matthew as they picked questions out of a goldfish bowl to help them start the conversation about what they want when they die. You can watch all these videos on this web page. They've started the conversation - will you?
St Helena can help you to feel empowered and confident to talk about dying, death and grief; to ask questions; to listen; and to be sure of what you and your loved one want when your time comes.
We understand it can be a difficult subject to approach and you may not know where to start. To help, we have a 'conversation starter pack' with some suggested questions to get you started. Tim Leeson, our spiritual care lead, has also written a blog to give you some help and tips on how to start and have these conversations.
If we are too scared to talk about death; don’t understand dying; or refuse to talk about grief, how can you react with compassion when loved ones need support? Please join the conversation
Planning future care if you become unwell
At St Helena, we empower people living with an incurable illness to plan ahead, share their choices and achieve their wishes; enabling them to die well with dignity and choice in their preferred place of care.
By having these important conversations with loved ones and healthcare professionals, and recording their wishes on the My Care Choices Register, they can be confident that everyone looking after them knows the care they want.